Day 6 of Advent | Plan an evening with the Groom to Create a Family Motto
Crafting Your Family Motto: A Meaningful Dinner Activity for Brides and Grooms
As you embark on this beautiful journey of marriage, one of the most special things you can do together is create a family motto. A motto reflects your shared values and aspirations, serving as a guiding principle for your new life together. It symbolizes unity, love, and the unique journey you're undertaking as a couple.
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| Motto Inspiration |
Example Motto: "Strength in Every Season."
This motto emphasizes that no matter the challenges you face, your family will remain strong and united all year round.
What better way to brainstorm than during a cozy dinner out? This informal yet meaningful activity allows you to connect, reflect, and have fun—all while enjoying a meal together!
Why Create a Family Motto?
A family motto can:
- Unite: It creates a shared vision for your life together.
- Inspire: It motivates you both to strive towards common goals.
- Celebrate: It reflects your unique story and values as a couple.
Dinner-Time Activity: Creating Your Family Motto
Preparation:
- Bring along a printed worksheet (available at the end of this post) to jot down ideas.
- Choose a relaxed restaurant or café where you can comfortably chat.
Step-by-Step Guide
1. Set the Intention (5 minutes)
- Start by discussing what a family motto means to each of you. Share your thoughts on why it’s important to create one now.
- Consider how this motto might reflect your personalities, shared interests, and future dreams.
2. Brainstorming Session (15 minutes)
- Take some time to write down words or phrases that resonate with both of you. Think about:
- Your values (trust, love, adventure)
- Your shared interests (travel, family, hobbies)
- Aspirations (growth, joy, success)
- Use the worksheet to jot down your ideas.
3. Share and Discuss (15 minutes)
- After brainstorming, take turns sharing your top three ideas. Discuss how each resonates with your vision for your future together.
- Ask questions to dive deeper:
- What does this phrase mean to us?
- How does it represent our journey as a couple?
4. Narrowing it Down (10 minutes)
- From your shared ideas, work together to narrow it down to your top three choices.
- Evaluate each option based on how it reflects your relationship and what you envision for your family.
5. Finalize Your Motto (10 minutes)
- Once you have your top three, decide on a final motto through discussion or even a fun vote!
- Celebrate your choice by reflecting on what this motto means for both of you as you begin your lives together.
Visual Representation
After your dinner, consider how you might want to visually represent your new family motto:
- Think about incorporating it into your wedding decor, a family logo, or even artwork in your home.
Create Your Motto Worksheet
Here's a simple worksheet to help you with the activity during dinner:
Health Storey Family Motto Worksheet
1. Intention Setting
- Creating a family motto is important - Have an agreement about this. Look at Pintrest for suggestions of phrases and sports team mottos. Use an AI text generator if you don't like writing or want to have a motto similar but different from one you really like.
2. Brainstorming Ideas
- Word/Phrase 1: ________________
- Word/Phrase 2: ________________
- Word/Phrase 3: ________________
- Word/Phrase 4: ________________
- Word/Phrase 5: ________________
3. Favorite Ideas Discussion
- Idea 1: ________________ (Why does this resonate?)
- Idea 2: ________________ (Why does this resonate?)
- Idea 3: ________________ (Why does this resonate?)
4. Top Choices
- Final Choice #1: ________________
- Final Choice #2: ________________
- Final Choice #3: ________________
5. Final Motto
- Our Family Motto: ________________
By taking the time to create your family motto during dinner, you’ll not only deepen your connection as a couple but also set the tone for the wonderful journey ahead. Keep this motto close to your hearts as a reflection of your love, shared goals, and the beautiful family you are beginning to create together. Cheers to a bright future and a meaningful emblem of your union! Share the motto with your family and tell them it is ok to make a Christmas gift for the family with their Motto. If you update the motto in future years, announce it to your extended family.
